Beating the Holiday Blues

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The can be a difficult for many. It is meant to bring joy and but sometimes this of can bring sadness and . Changes in , such as being separated from and friends, or living through the of a , can be especially hard.

are also thought to be primarily caused by and along with a of and . People generally have high expectations for the holidays. We often hope that they will make up for a gone wrong. We expect members to become friendly, ’s greetings to be sent, gifts to be given, and to . The media, through stories, TV specials, and advertising, raise this hope for “what may be.” The of “what is” often falls short of the and there is .

Negative memories may also be associated to the and those suffering with and other disorders can also be affected at this of due to of . Many people are lonely at this of if they are working or going to without a to get back to your for the . You may have not been in long enough to make many friends. It can be hard to find comfort.

Characteristics of “The ” are emotions - sadness, loneliness, , - and, although intense and unsettling, these emotions are generally short-lived and usually within a few weeks once a daily is resumed. Other symptoms of the “ ” may :

* headaches * to sleep or sleeping too much * changes in causing or * agitation and * excessive or inappropriate feelings of * diminished ability to think clearly or concentrate * decreased interest in activities that usually bring , such as: o o sex o work o friends o hobbies o entertainment

The most important things to remember are: it’s a normal response to a -filled of the and you ‘t have to suffer unnecessarily. If you anticipate feeling very lonely on or Eve, there are ways that you can help yourself feel better and survive the . 26 Ways to Improve Your During the :

1. Volunteering offers a to interact with others, give to the , and help keep your spirits up through giving. The Union Gospel Mission, Salvation Army, Carnegie Centre, or various churches will provide dinners and benefit by receiving help from volunteers. This is a good to help yourself by not being alone and by helping others in need.

2. If you are in a new , try to get an invitation somewhere for . Let others know that you would enjoy having dinner with them.

3. Invite someone to join you in .

4. Find out what the offers and participate in it. Go to the concerts and parades. Get involved.

5. Takes gifts to a children’s .

6. Be active by going for walks. Getting some will help keep levels up. ‘t cooped up inside too long. 20 minutes of every will raise endorphin levels and allow you to absorb what sunshine there is.

7. Be aware of your - try not to overindulge in alcohol or sweets. Alcohol and can really and brings on ‘moodiness’.

8. Get enough : general self- of the is important.

9. Organize your : make lists and prioritize.

10. If you are going to be with , bad memories might come up that can be really stressful. Take items from your current that you have positive associations with. This might be a teddy bear, pictures of friends, a good book, or candles. Anything to help you feel more comfortable.

11. Plan away from . If you are going for a few days, it can be stressful. Getting away can help to lessen the .

12. If you find that you fall back into old patterns when you are around members, it can he helpful to remember that you are an adult now and you have the ability to behave and respond in a different . Spend some ahead. What kinds of circumstances will occur that might bring up old feelings?

13. Be Prepared. There may be certain things that happen every that drive you up the wall. This , talk to the people involved ahead of and try to defuse those situations before they occur.

14. If finances are a , be aware of this and set reasonable limits.

15. If there is a significant that you are reminded of this of , such as a death in the or a divorce, it can be helpful not to push it away and pretend it didn’t happen. Recognize that there was a and take to acknowledge it. Create a healthy of remembering. Examples could putting out favorite photographs and lighting a candle before them.

16. If you are in a new city or find yourself lonely, try to create new memories for yourself. You may enjoy events around the city such as the Festival of Lights at VanDusen Botanical Garden -

Dates and times: 4:30 to 9 p.m. every night, December 7th, 2007 through January 1st, 2008 (except December 25th when the Garden is closed).

17. Another tool to help you get through the is to remember that the will pass.

18. Also, remember that winter will pass. Winter does not last forever.

19. Remember to take your medication. Also, taking multi- and fish oil capsules daily can contribute to overall and keep down. Other supplements such as D or a B Complex can be helpful for .

20. Keep yourself busy to take your of things if that helps. Make plans to go out for lunch, go for walks, go to the movies or even curl up at and watch a movie.

21. If you are suffering from clinical , getting some help can be beneficial this of the . Go to see a therapist, look for a support group, or contact the mental team in your area. Get as much help and support as you can.

22. Give yourself a break — plan to prepare (or buy) one special , purchase one special gift, and take in one special event.

23. If you ‘t like , shop or make small gifts.

24. Do your best not to create unrealistic expectations and ‘t get caught up in comparisons.

25. Find someone to talk with who can help you through this difficult — a member, friend, a spiritual leader, or professional counsellor.

26. Call a crisis line in your of need: area 604-872-3311.

© Janel Ball 2007

Thank you and plesae take of yourself over the ,

Janel Ball, MA, RCC, MBACP Healing Solutions Professional Counselling Services janel@healingsolutions.ca http://healingsolutions.ca

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